Wednesday, November 10, 2010
Today, i wanna blog about love vs freedom. Hey, the thing i blog may nt be true but its jux my thoughts. Like what the title says- Love vs Freedom. Why didnt i put Love & Freedom? Well, cux to me, these 2 will nvr be tgt, meaning, its either one or another.
Yup, lets talk abt the advantages of choosing love. Everyone wants the feeling of being loved and taken care of. The feeling of knowing that someone is always der for u (althou nt all can), being treasured, nt feeling left out and also noe that u're being appreciated. True? At the same time, freedom is another veri impt aspect.
Perhaps at the beginning of a rs (honeymoon period), one may think, "nah its okie, as long as she/he is with me, i'll be very happy and thats the most impt thing", or " i don need anything else as long as im with her/him". But once the honeymoon period is oveR?
My definition of freedom.- do the things i like. - Don haf think much abt any other factors. In short, do anything as and when i wan.
The reason why i say love and freedom can nvr be tgt is, Once u haf a partner, u haf to spare a thought for them, for eg, if you wanna go out with ur friend of opp sex u haf to consider if ur partner will get jealous or stuffs liddat. I mean its okie to get jealous, but still, u'll feel guilty for making them jealous, so u'll haf to think and think abt it. Thou some may argue that they're nt jealous, but okiee.
Next, u haf to keep them accompanied, which means, lesser own time to do what u wan. Eg. U realli wanna go out with friends, but ur another half wants to go out with u, so u haf to make a choice and stuffs liddat.
Also, whatever things or action u do, u haf to keep in mind that ur bf/gf wont be jealous.
Lastly, one may haf lesser time to do the things they like. For eg, for guys, they love gaming but their gf doesnt, and they haf to spend lesser time on it.
With these factors, I still don understand why some pple tell me tt both can be tgt. Okie. perhaps im nt experienced and onli know little abt it, but those are from what i observed and think. ( Im jux bloggin what i think and its nt abt me.)
So, what choice will you pple make? O.o
Just ME ;
